Help! I can’t stop eating! Am I addicted to food?

Am I addicted to food?

Do you find yourself constantly thinking about food? Are you eating even when you’re not hungry? Do you feel guilty after indulging in a binge-eating session? Do you feel like you’re addicted to food? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you might be struggling with compulsive overeating.

Is Food Addiction Real?

You might be wondering to yourself ‘is food addictive?’ or ‘can food be addictive?’

Food addiction is a controversial topic, but it is gaining more recognition as a genuine issue. Some experts argue that being addicted to food is similar to substance abuse disorders because certain foods, especially those high in sugar, fat, and salt, can trigger the release of dopamine in the brain. This “feel-good” chemical can lead to cravings, withdrawal symptoms, and loss of control over eating behaviours.

Irrespective of the label of food addict, compulsive eater or emotional overeater, if you recognise that you struggle in your relationship with food, then help is available.

Why Do People Feel Addicted to Food?

There are several reasons why someone might feel addicted to food. These include:

1. Emotional eating: Using food as a coping mechanism to deal with stress, anxiety, or other negative emotions.
2. Habitual eating: Eating out of habit, such as snacking while watching TV or always having dessert after dinner.
3. Environmental factors: Being surrounded by inadequate food options or being influenced by friends and family who have poor eating habits.
4. Biological factors: Genetic predisposition to craving certain foods or having a lower sensitivity to the feeling of fullness.

Strategies for addressing Overeating

To address overeating, it’s important to approach the problem from physical, mental, and emotional perspectives. Here are some steps to help you get started:


  • Eat Mindfully

One of the most effective ways to tackle overeating is to practice mindful eating. This involves paying attention to your body’s hunger and fullness cues, eating slowly, savouring each bite, and eliminating distractions during meals. Did you know it takes around 20 minutes for your brain to get the message that you have had enough and are satisfied? If you tend to eat foods at a rapid pace it’s quite possible you’re overeating as there isn’t enough time for your brain to recognise your satiety signals. Slowing the pace of your eating can feel rather alien if you are used to eating fast or with distractions, but stick with it!

  • Plan Your Meals

Planning your meals in advance can help you make better choices and avoid impulsive eating. Make a grocery list, stock up on nutritious foods, and prepare meals at home as much as possible. I must stress here the this is not the same as rigid meal planning or following prescriptive plans in aid of weight loss, the reality is that knowing what you’re going to eat for the day ahead not only makes life a little easier but reduces poor decision fatigue choices. If you’re a busy individual with things to do and people to take care of, making a good decision at 6pm when you’re tired, stressed and running on empty is near impossible.


  • Identify Your Triggers

Understanding what triggers your overeating is crucial for overcoming it. Keep a food journal and note down when and why you overeat. This will help you identify patterns and develop strategies to avoid or cope with these triggers. Although it come sometimes be met with initial resistance, my clients often find that journalling gives them new insight into the triggers for their overeating. Journal and then notice patterns that might emerge such as skipped meals leading to a later binge, long periods between meals or poor sleep leading to intense cravings.

  • Set Realistic Goals

Setting achievable goals can help you stay motivated and focused on your journey to overcome overeating. Break down your goals into smaller steps, and celebrate your progress along the way. One of the first goals I tend to work on with many clients is having a balanced breakfast every morning. If you’re a regular breakfast dodger, this is a good place to start.


  • Develop Healthy Coping Mechanisms

Find alternative ways to cope with stress, anxiety, or other negative emotions without turning to food. This could include:

  • Talking to a friend
  • Deep breathing exercises
  • Progressive muscle relaxation
  • Visualisation techniques
  • Engaging in a hobby or activity
  • Playing music
  • Spending time in nature
  • Practicing yoga
  • Taking a warm bath

If you recognise that feelings of stress or overwhelm are big triggers for overeating, developing strategies like some of these listed above might seem like yet another task to add to your list. I promise you though that often the things that we feel resistance too is the very thing we need to lean into more.

  • Build a Support System

Having a support system can be incredibly helpful when trying to overcome overeating. Reach out to friends, family, or join a support group where you can share your experiences and learn from others who are facing similar challenges. You are NOT alone in your struggles with food.

  • Seeking Professional Help

If you’re struggling to manage your overeating on your own, it may be beneficial to seek professional help from an eating disorder therapist. They can provide guidance, support, and evidence-based treatment approaches to help you regain control over your eating habits and improve your overall well-being. If you are interested in exploring working with me on your recovery journey, please visit my website for more details and to book a discovery call.

Remember, overcoming overeating is a journey, and it’s essential to be patient with yourself. By addressing the physical, mental, and emotional aspects of your relationship with food, you can make lasting changes and develop a healthier relationship with food.

If you need help with an eating disorder in the UK or Ireland, please feel free to get in touch and see how I might be able to help you start your journey towards Food Freedom!

Read more here: ‘But I Need to Lose Weight for My Health’ – The Common Misconceptions around Weight and Health, 5 Steps to Overcome Emotional Eating

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